not with it

"A lot of people were not with it because they felt like it would further criminalise them, you know, it might be a trap."

“Being a 10-month old Lab and being very energetic, he was not with it.”

Or if the defense is playing really well, you as offense are not with it, do they get upset with you?’

Lipa is a lightly regal singer who often sounds removed from the hiss and purr of her production, as if she’s performing to the track and not with it.

“He’s not with it,” she said of President Biden, calling Jill Biden “our ventriloquist first lady.”