asker

I often sense a bit of nervousness or impatience from the asker, a desire — and sometimes a forthright request — to know how long it will take to feel better and what “better” even looks like.

Usually the asker is a nervous parent who desperately wants the best for their child and is terrified that affirming the child's transness will cause the child harm in the future.

I’ve always been an asker of questions and a status quo challenger just by being a woman.

The asker of said question likely had Jalen Carter in mind when posing it.

Some of the askers even make a comment that we’re in “this town” so therefore must have the money and means to donate.