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courtly

[kawrt-lee, kohrt-] / ˈkɔrt li, ˈkoʊrt- /
ADJECTIVE
refined manner
Synonyms
STRONGEST
affable aristocratic civilized dignified elegant gallant gracious polite stately
WEAK
adulatory august ceremonious chivalrous civil complimentary conventional cultured decorous flattering formal high-bred imposing lofty obliging polished preux prim refined studied urbane
Antonyms
STRONGEST
impolite rude undignified unmannerly unrefined unsophisticated vulgar
WEAK
indecorous inelegant low-bred provincial rough uncivil unpolished

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