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“It was his window to express how he felt, like he could say things in songs that he wouldn’t be okay saying out loud,” she recalled.

Rubbing his hands against the cold, as Amsterdam's cyclists stream by, Rabbi van de Kamp recalls his mother's words: "We are allowed to be very angry, but we must never hate."

Speaking about this conundrum, she recalls “a lightbulb moment” at a financial company she worked with.

"I drove around to my parents’ house and said to them: ‘I need to go to hospital'," he recalls.

Across the road, his 62-year old neighbour Antonio shook his head at the task ahead, recalling “a scene from a horror movie”.