upsetting

"In addition, unexpectedly finding cremated ashes detracts from the enjoyment of others in a wild place and may be deeply upsetting."

Maybe this is part of why the prospect of someone else cutting off a family member seems so threatening or upsetting.

"People were asking for refunds, arguing with me and being aggressive, it was super upsetting and I had to keep telling people to contact their banks for refunds," she said.

He said he did not respond and blocked the accounts, but said he found it "strange and upsetting".

"I think that is an example of the thing that was upsetting me most," she said.