What is a synonym for them?
We don’t traditionally think of
them as having synonyms, but there are several situations in which it can replace—or be replaced with—another word, phrase, or series of words.
Plural people and things Them is perhaps most commonly used as a plural
pronoun referring to multiple people, as in
Seven people made reservations, and all of them showed up at the same time. It can also refer to multiple things, as in
I didn’t want the packages to fall off the table, so I moved them. A singular person Like its subject (
nominative) form
they, them also has a long history of being used to refer to an unspecified individual or to a person whose gender and other personal details are unknown or irrelevant, as in
If a student is absent, they must bring in a note with them when they return to school. Sentences like this sometimes use constructions like he or she, but the use of
they and
them has become very common in such instances, with many people preferring this approach as less awkward and more inclusive.
Nonbinary gender expression A use of
them that has become more widespread is as a
personal pronoun, along with
they and related forms, for those who identify as
nonbinary or whose gender identity exists between or beyond the spectrum of strictly male or female. Grammatically, it’s used in the same way as the gender-specific terms like
he and
she, but it’s gender-neutral. You can learn more about this below.
themselves In some cases, the word
themselves is used as another way of saying
them or another form of it. It’s sometimes used in place of
them after the words
as,
than, and
but, as in
They saw girls no older than themselves. It can also be used as an emphatic form of
they or
them, as in
They—the students themselves—wrote the lesson. Singular forms include
themself or
theirself.
What does it mean to use they/them pronouns?
When someone requests to be referred to with
they/them pronouns, it means they don’t use the pronouns typically associated with male and female gender identities, like
he/him and
she/her. Such people may identify as nonbinary or in a number of other ways. Other forms of
they are often used along with singular, nonbinary
they and
them, such as
their and
themself. How to use they/them pronouns Grammatically speaking, when
they is used as a singular pronoun, it still takes a plural verb—
are or
were, as in
They are my favorite person or
Any employee who missed the training while they were on vacation still needs to complete it. We do the same thing when we use the singular
you with
are or
were. Interpersonally speaking, the right way to use
they/them pronouns is the way that the person you’re referring to prefers them to be used. In some cases, people use other
gender-neutral pronouns, such as
ze. Some people whose gender identity is fluid or encompasses multiple genders may use a mix of pronouns, such as
she/they or
they/he, among others.
What kind of pronoun is them?
Them is a
personal pronoun. It can be either singular or plural.
Pronouns are used as substitutes for nouns—they’re another way of referring to a noun without using a specific name. Personal pronouns are used to refer to the one communicating, to the one being addressed, or the one being talked about. In terms of its grammatical function,
them is an
objective pronoun, meaning that it’s generally used as the object of a sentence—the one on the receiving end of some action—as opposed to the subject (the one doing the action). The nominative (subject) form of
them is
they, as in
They asked me to drive them home. Them is categorized as a
third person pronoun (like
he,
she,
him,
her, and
they), meaning that it’s used to refer to anyone other than the person doing the addressing or the ones being addressed. In contrast,
first person pronouns (like
I and
me) refer to the speaker or writer themselves.
Second person pronouns (
you and its other forms) address the person being spoken to or reading. In literature, third-person
point of view is a common form of narration in which the events of the story are told using the third person.
