more aggressive

combative contentious destructive intrusive threatening

advancing antipathetic assailing attacking barbaric bellicose disruptive disturbing encroaching hawkish intruding invading martial militant offensive pugnacious quarrelsome rapacious warlike

calm complaisant easy-going laid-back

bold cocky dynamic energetic forceful smart tough vigorous zealous

assertory brassy cheeky come on domineering enterprising flip fresh get up and go go after hard sell imperious masterful militant nervy pushing pushy sassy shooting from the hip smart alecky strenuous

apathetic dull idle impotent inactive lethargic meek shy slow timid weak

calm complaisant easy-going laid-back