under control

composed contained disciplined guarded restrained

calm cool inhibited

self-controlled self-restrained unflappable

agitated excited

attentive compliant deferential devoted docile dutiful faithful law-abiding loyal respectful subservient

acquiescent amenable at one's beck and call biddable complaisant controllable docious duteous governable honoring in one's clutches in one's pocket in one's power obeisant obliging observant on a string pliant regardful resigned reverential sheeplike tame tractable venerating well-trained willing wrapped around finger yielding

disloyal disobedient inconsiderate inconstant neglectful unfaithful

contrary insolent misbehaving mutinous obstinate rebellious

discreet laid-back mild muted reasonable reticent subdued tasteful unobtrusive

chilled controlled cool moderate plain retiring shrinking steady withdrawn

bottled-up calm and collected conservative corked up in charge in check inobtrusive on a leash self-controlled soft temperate unaffable undemonstrative under wraps unexcessive unexpansive unextreme uptight

communicative

extroverted friendly outgoing

assured bold confident