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commiserate

[kuh-miz-uh-reyt] / kəˈmɪz əˌreɪt /
VERB
listen to woes of another
Synonyms
STRONGEST
sympathize
STRONG
ache compassionate condole console feel pity
WEAK
feel for have mercy share sorrow
Antonyms
WEAK
be indifferent turn away

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